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who is bunnika?
I'm a queer, disabled, nonbinary person, writing about feminism, queer rights, and life with a severe mobility impairment.
bunnika across the web
- This crazy person is tired of being blamed for gun violence. tmblr.co/ZC2Akx2QdYfVh 2 weeks ago
- dysperdis: dysperdis: so this has been bouncing around my head for a while and I’m still not sure if this... tmblr.co/ZC2Akx2QCcfNV 1 month ago
- I’ve been all a mess with taking my meds the last couple of days and my sleep cycle is suffering. I should... tmblr.co/ZC2Akx2QCboy8 1 month ago
- ambergirl986: nonbinarysapphic: nonbinarysapphic: ive recently found out that in the 80s lesbians who were... tmblr.co/ZC2Akx2Po73d0 1 month ago
- I had a guest over, a possible new mom friend (!!!) and I was too taken aback to speak up when I should... tmblr.co/ZC2Akx2Po6qvc 1 month ago
- Train Wrecks
- "That's How It Happened"
- Snippet: On Call-Outs
- I'm Not Sorry Anymore, Men
- Some Truth Bombs About Rape
- Snippet: A Culture of Victimhood
- Sex-Positive & Woman-Negative
- Snippet: On 2013 and Beyond
- What I Owe You
- The Difference Between Oppression & Bullying
- Ignorance About the Culture of Disability
- Baiting Mental Illness
- Did You Know Cripples Can Do Things?
- From Plastic Picnicware to Polished Silver
- "No Vote for You!"
- The Worst Thing About Not Having a Diagnosis
- The Desolation of Pain
- "Back When I Was a Minority..."
- Circular Arguments
- Grieving for My(old)self
- The Devil in the Details
- Comment Policy
- Privileged Comment Extravaganza!
- Respecting the Victims
- Changes Are Afoot...
- Context and Relativity
- "That's So Lame!"
- Snippet: Teh Menz
- We're Not Professor X
- Sorry, Men, You're STILL Not Oppressed
- Words from a "Cripple"
- Snippet: Trolling
- A New Reality
- But But But...LESBIANS!
- Grade School Logic
- On Unicorns and Cleaning the Stable
- Get Off the Fucking Fence
- Overstepping Allies
- You're Not Cutting My Sons
- "Get Over It"
- Google is Your Friend
- The Man-Hating Feminazi
- You've Got Some 'Spaining to Do
- Sorry, Men, You Are Not Oppressed
- We've Been Violated Enough
- Snippet: Silence
- Fuck the Nip and Tuck
- The Trials of Invisible Illness
- I'm a Slut
- The Inked Feminist
- I Was Not a Child Pirate
- "Trampy" Children
Category Archives: sj allies
I’ve found that increasingly, I’m being told I’m not “tolerant.” It’s pulled out condescendingly by conservatives, with insistence that “tolerance demands tolerance” and that if I want people to be tolerant of me and people like me, I have to … Continue reading
Call-outs are always a source of contention, because they’re often so unwelcome by those who deserve them the most. People don’t like being told they’re wrong, and hearing it in a social context is even harder than in professional or … Continue reading
Note: In this post, I am using the terms “bipolar disorder” and “manic depression” interchangeably. The latter is sort of an old-school term for the same illness, and one that some sufferers prefer as more descriptive. Personally, I find both … Continue reading
My brain’s in a fog today. Or, I think, my brain’s in a constant fog now. Funny thing is, the rest of the world doesn’t care that you’re in pain. The rest of the world doesn’t care that you’ve been … Continue reading
There are ways in which I’ve evolved as a feminist, particularly in the last two or so years, and I really am fascinated by the progress I’ve made. Nearly every day, I’m given reason to think deeply on an aspect … Continue reading
“That’s r*t*rded.” “That is so gay.” These are a couple of phrases that most progressive, socially conscious people wince at. The derogatory use of “gay” and “r*t*rded” as a general condemnation of anything from people to actions to objects is … Continue reading
On Unicorns and Cleaning the Stable: Why Even “Male Feminists” Need to Actively Check Their Privilege
My two most recent posts have both been about the missteps of allies within social justice (specifically, the notion that they deserve equal attention/say in minority issues and on how they damage the cause through privileged platitudes). They’re both applicable … Continue reading